Can’t say the same myself unfortunately. The community was one of the main reasons I moved to Gentoo. I’ve had so many bad encounters on the Arch IRC channel, they often made me feel like a complete idiot for not knowing certain things. On Gentoo on the other hand the community has very knowledgeable people but they don’t feel ‘elitist’ about it and are in fact very kind and helpful.

What about Fuchsia?

And then there is Gentoo, where you can decide for each package if you want bleeding edge or stable